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Monday 19 December 2011

Multifaceted Child Rearing Obligations Involving Higher Issues

By Lebronski Kuwada Xavier


Parenting runs the gamut of situations from the hilarious to the embarrassingly funny. Since they are expected, there's no point in mentioning fury and frustration. Even if they don't realize it they can be brutally truthful, making it more than accurate in the case of children. That's one of the great things about growing kids and being surrounded by them

None of us can forget about our senior year in high school because we could finally see a taste of what was going to happen. Then it seemed like our last year with our friends was gone in a blink of an eye. So, you know exactly what they feel and what they face on an almost daily basis. These are the times when you offer what you can in terms of supportive advice and perhaps just listening and being there. Being encouraging is a good thing, no matter how many times it must be offered. Just take a look at how well your child deals with leaving home. Then continue to use your parenting skills in the best way that you know how. We have confidence that you will do okay.

One of the most difficult times for a parent is when their teenage children think that they can tell them about the things that they are doing wrong. When this happens the first time, it is very easy to see why a parent would not like it. But of course much depends on the subject and how it is delivered. However, you have to understand that teens by nature are always pulling away from their parents. Besides, teens have to feel like their feelings and opinions are important, even if we don't think so.

There is nothing that hurts more for parents than when their teenage children want to criticize them. When this happens in the beginning, it is very easy to understand why a parent would not be happy about it. Quite naturally, the topic and how it was delivered would be of great importance. However, you have to understand that teens by nature are always pulling away from their parents. Besides, teens have to feel like their feelings and opinions are important, even if we don't think so.

Successfully parenting children involves teaching them a set of skills whereby they are able to cope with the external world. We cannot and should not try to solve all of their problems. This is why any child that has a healthy mindset will figure out how to handle the things that are presented to them.

Investing quality time with each other might help any family. One great way to do this would be to see a show or a movie with each other which teaches some type of moral message. An excellent illustration is Disney's Lion King. This is a great show that a lot of households watch with each other.




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